On the 12th Day To Xmas…
12 Dimensions For Each 12 Days Until Xmas….
As mentioned yesterday, Reflection of the year gone by is so good for us in knowing how-best to set-up better next year.
Some just wander around and take it all as it comes, which is great for just ‘settling’ for whatever what may what may happen. I guess this can be a little exciting not-knowing what lay ahead…. Spontaneity and all that, but it’s also uncertain, unreliable and worse, dream-destroying, frustrated not knowing or living the life one wants….
This is not to say one is not busy? Not at all, so many work flipping hard to practically stand still, and with economic woes, or social mishaps still showing themselves since lockdown and so, …. It’s all exhausting, or can be.
Many have done that…just muddling along, hoping and praying that one day it’ll just sort out. I’ve done it, and no it didn’t just sort out, I had jump more into my life, pay more attention and do something about it, namely I had to get more clear in what I truly wanted for my life, and why I wanted it and then the how to do it showed up better…my roadmap if you will.
Afterall, without my roadmap I was just busy, being busy, being aimlessly busy, …frustrated, disappointed and on the down a misery spiral… not having much fun at all, … Don’t get me wrong I love an adventure, but some journeys are most definitely better than others and those well-prepared do wonders ….. And after much fumbling about and angst about life not quite being as I wanted …. After sincere reflection, it was then I turned it all around and took things up to the next-level…
There are so many dimensions to life so a suggestion is to place things into manageable chunks and timeframes so, here’s a brief outline-plan to get started by getting more clear… and when better to start than now?!.... In the present, while checking in with self asking, how this last year went and am I set-up to do even better next year, or will I just carry on carry on same ol’ ways? …
A key motivator for me is family and friends as well as the well-being of the world overall, but to show up and be the best for them I have to be the best of myself…so I am constantly checking in with myself, learning, growing to live my most authentic life. So not in selfish negative terms, but I look into my self through more positive lenses… of how I can be and do better…to ‘show-up more fully’?
In a nutshell, here’s an outline of what one can do to simplify the process, but more to enable a more empowering journey. It’s a breakdown into the 12 months of the year focusing on 1 of 12 dimensions designated for each month. This allows for one to focus on one dimension, one aspect, of one’s life that month before moving onto the next *(as it tends to take up to 30 days to really embed new habits …new moves and grooves into one’s life) and then at the end of the year, like now one gets to reflect.
Reflecting not only, on the year gone by and determine where along the life journey is, and has it been / is the all the life-adventure it could be, but also to integrate and/or check-in on one’s integration of all the 12 dimensions to be more whole.
As you can see one can go deeeeep with this, which can be meaningful and it is, and one can also keep things more simple. To be honest, it’d be unfair to say that all of it is easy, - no, - some of it can be very challenging, and one will likely run up against one’s ‘stuff’. Hence another good reason to keep simple and not overcomplicate things…. I mean there are kinds of tools, strategies, ways and means of doing things so, best to keep it simple.
So on that note, here goes
Here is 1 of the 12 dimensions I will be drip feeding into the 12 days leading up to Xmas, to then reflect on, consider for new year ahead, sketch out a thumbnail plan, set SMART goals for each…and then go do them….
…Oh, and get an accountability partner/buddy to help keep you going. In fact have them or more (ie; friends and family) do the same and then help keep each other going… And even better, get a coach, guide and/or mentor to take y’all to the next-level of living and possibilities. I did and so thankful I did, the only thing – I wished to heck I’d done it sooner.
The 1st dimension, albeit challenging at times - like all of them, is one may be the most accessible and easiest to understand, and then again we are all different and one way does not fit all so, when the new year comes around to kick things off for the new year ahead, you can mix them up to your priority and preference, but for now… in the spirit of Xmas, …in the spirit of giving!
🎄✨ Let’s start with the 1st day until Xmas, your true self gave to you… Health & Wellbeing.
It’s time to transform and unleash the energy within 💪 for when we are in optimal health it enables us to be more able to stay with it and embrace new ways of doing things.
So again now is a good time to reflect on things, be totally honest with yourself, write down how it really is, …things you’re doing, not doing, wished you were doing, quit doing, won’t do, but as importantly could do that would make all the difference.
No pressure, be kind and honest with yourself. Do just this for now and you can / will revisit it later moving forward. And most importantly have fun with it…imagine the possibilities… because afterall, if you have to Envision It, to then Believe It and then go on to Achieve It ~ *(whatever It is for you!?). Just know that you can… doing what it takes … success is inevitable. - *(KAN Unltd.)
Now is your time…
Remember Life is the Adventure, and We are the Adventurers!”
Happy Trails! 😊
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